7 Star Courtesies

Celebrity etiquette: many people, most of the time, can handle being star-struck. Sometimes, though, it simply does make us giddy to the knees. When that happens, these top 7 Star Courtesies can gently guide you:

1. Greet them with a smile and a compliment. The traditional, "I'm so pleased to meet you," is a delightful opener. Follow it up with a direct, specific compliment on their work, art, achievements or affect on your life. "You're so beautiful," is nice but really, they've likely heard that a million times. Be honest and original. Wouldn't you like to be the one fan they go home and tell their friends about?

2. Be as brief as possible. Yes, you will have a few comments and perhaps even a question or two but remember, celebrities are people just like us. Their time is valuable, as is the time of all those in line behind you.
If you must ask a question, LISTEN to their answer. Don't just nod your head and then ask them the exact same question slightly rephrased. Even if they are paid to be at an event, that doesn't give you exclusive ownership of their time and energy. Practicing politeness will assist in making this an enjoyable moment for everyone.

3. Handshaking: hold your hand out for the handshake but do not grab theirs and start shaking wildly! Keep it firm but not crushing, and brief.
***If they don't take your hand (rare, but it happens) just let your arm drop to your side and stay cool. It is EXTREMELY rude not to shake someone's hand no matter the circumstance or even if you dislike them. But we must always handle rudeness with grace and dignity.

4. Hugging: always, ALWAYS, ask first ("may I hug you?" or "may I give you a hug?"). If language is a barrier, open your arms wide to indicate you'd like to hug them. If they are willing, they will lean forward and voilà! Hug! Keep it brief and allow a little air to remain between your bodies- no pressing up into them, no matter how enchanted you are.

5. Picture posing: posing for that upcoming profile pic update on your Facebook? The same principles apply here as with previous two "physical contact tips"- always ask first and keep it brief. Take no more than one or two snaps and thank them for being so kind. And please choose the pic that makes them look the best to post. That's just common courtesy.

6. If you find yourself getting all giddy and starry eyed, just admit it to them and pull yourself together quickly. There is something innately charming about a person's adoration so no need to play it cool. Just don't wrap your body around them until security is forced to extract you.

7. "Thank you!" Remember to thank them for their time and attention to you. Again, that's just common courtesy.