tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83414129675255210712024-03-12T16:05:22.287-07:00Hi! Welcome to Etiquette at Hand!Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-61885932265104130092016-03-17T16:37:00.002-07:002016-03-17T16:40:15.118-07:00Don't be that jerk at work! Carrie GlennWhat everyone ought to know about what <i>not</i> to do in the workplace.<br />
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At work, wouldn't it be fair to say most of us want to be perceived as successful, dependable, worth promoting and even dynamic? Yes, our pedigree, diploma, and connections can get our foot in the door but what keeps us in everyone's good graces and keeps us from getting the boot?<br />
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How we behave at work can deeply affect how far ahead we get, how often we receive raises and promotions, and even the quality of the type of projects we are given. How we behave can also be construed as indicators of our character. In short, we are valued or judged on our behavior at work.<br />
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<b>1. The Houdini smile.</b> You know that smile. It's the smile that instantly vanishes when the giver turns away. You know, the smile that tries to brighten the room but almost never quite reaches the eyes and even if by some miracle the giver does manage to authenticate that fake smile, it slips off as their head is turning away, leaving in its place a subtle, almost triumphantly obnoxious sneer of victory that they have yet again duped the receiver.<br />
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<b>What you can do: </b>Learn to smile genuinely and make a point to keep a smile on your face after engaging with others for at least 5-10 seconds. The way to let your smile fade naturally is to keep thinking about a positive aspect of the conversation. Think of your gently-fading smile as a "transition" from the engagement to your next task.<br />
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<b>2. Gossip. </b>Nearly everyone does it. It is so prevalent in today's workplace that to not gossip could get you on the least-popular-list in a jiffy. However, employees are beginning to stand up against office bullying and other harmful work environments. The need to subtly dissuade gossip has become urgent and there are ways to effectively handle this.<br />
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<b>What you can do: </b>Never start gossiping. When someone else gossips, find a reason to excuse yourself or simply change the subject.<br />
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<b>3. Being rude to others (even accidentally).</b> This is such a broad and vague subject that it can be difficult to navigate without a second pair of eyes on you. There are a few things that can make one appear rude even if they don't mean to be.<br />
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<li>Googley eye contact: lack of eye contact, wandering eyes, lack of interest in eyes, fake smiles that don't reach the eyes.</li>
<li>Shyness: being nervous to carry on a conversation, poor posture, being more quiet than others (don't worry, we do address those extraverts in moment!).</li>
<li>Lack of etiquette: not holding the door for others, not saying good morning to each person you meet, not shaking hands properly, introducing people incorrectly, not holding the elevator, not displaying the proper respect to everyone from the boss to the janitor. </li>
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<b>What you can do: </b>Learn about eye contact. If you are shy, learn some techniques to help with confident communication. Take a career etiquette workshop or read a book or two. This is good even if you already have good business etiquette. Also, get honest feedback from others if you think you may display rudeness.<br />
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<b>4. Being an office bully. </b>There are basically two types of office bullies: the ones who know they are bullies and the ones who blame others for making them re-act in an uncivil manner. Either way, bullies engage in any or all of these behaviors: demeaning body language, talk down-to, yell, criticize, public reprimanding, sexual advances, gossip, hazing, roasting, teasing, stealing credit, oh! The list goes on!<br />
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<b>What you can do: </b>There is a simple 3 step plan for controlling one's tendency to engage in office bullying:<br />
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<b>5. Talking non-stop about yourself or complaining.</b> We all know that office assistant that we avoid. You know, the one we attempt to escape from for fear that if he catches our eye he will instantaneously launch into a five minute monologue about any given subject. Don't be that guy! Or the complaining, whining, nay-sayer that no one can please.<br />
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<b>What you can do: </b>Ask more questions and listen to the answers. Never speak in sentences more than 11 words long. Stop worrying about the things you can complain about and focus more on solutions.
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<b>BONUS</b>: Bad body language! It may surprise you to learn that bad body language can make people unlikeable. It stands to reason since non-verbal communication is a huge percentage of our communication. This can include facial expressions, unpolished or inappropriate gestures, poor posture, clenched fists, fidgeting, hands crossed in front of your chest or even held together down in front of your belly, hands on your hips, hair in your eyes, crossed feet, one foot over your knee, rushed behavior, tone of voice, insensitivity to personal space, too much swag in your walk and not enough swag in your walk.<br />
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<b>What you can do:</b> Join a club like Toastmasters to address other idiosyncrasies. Take international etiquette to learn how some body language (like showing the bottom of your foot) can offend others cultures. Take ballet or yoga consistently to improve posture.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif; font-size: large;">Tights and Etiquette? Wait. "What do tights have to do with etiquette?" One might ask. It's a valid question. And the answer is simple: style is etiquette. So is how we care for our things (yes, including something as seemingly simple as tights). The less we have to think about the cares of this world, the more we can concentrate on the most important things like how we treat one another. </span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "bookman old style" , "new york" , "times" , serif; font-size: 16px;">Carrie Glenn helps Millennials develop career etiquette so that they can become a powerful force in the workplace. She teaches workplace civility, career etiquette, volunteer and event etiquette, Mother / Daughter grace and poise, professional dining, professional image and makeup, and more. From the dining room to the boardroom, her unique training provides powerful social skills that deliver results. She is the founder of </span><a class="yiv9314719553" href="http://etiquetteathand.com/" id="yiv9314719553yui_3_16_0_1_1447546909537_139480" rel="nofollow" shape="rect" style="background-color: transparent; color: blue; cursor: text !important; font-family: 'bookman old style', 'new york', times, serif; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;" target="_blank">EtiquetteAtHand.com</a><span style="font-family: "bookman old style" , "new york" , "times" , serif; font-size: 16px;">, where she teaches everything kind, classy, and beautiful and she is the author of </span><i class="yiv9314719553" id="yiv9314719553yui_3_16_0_1_1449816585560_542915" style="font-family: 'bookman old style', 'new york', times, serif; font-size: 16px;">The Periscope Checklist</i><span style="font-family: "bookman old style" , "new york" , "times" , serif; font-size: 16px;">, the eBook that teaches professional, high quality live broadcasting skills.</span></b></div>
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Never have I posted someone else's video in my blogs. Here's the thing. In business etiquette, we talk about networking. We talk about connecting with others. We talk about promoting others and how to promote ourselves at the same time. That doesn't mean we arbitrarily go around posting great works from others. There's too many to choose from.<br />
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Watching this video made me feel. Made me crave something. Made me determined to continue building the community of amazing and unique people who want to make a difference in the world. And it made me think about all those missed opportunities due to that voice in my head that asks on a daily and sometimes hourly basis,<br />
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Who do you think you are to believe that you can have more of life than what you've been offered? Who do you think you are to believe that you can make an impact in this world? Who do you think you are to follow your unrealistic dreams? Who? Who? Who...<br />
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Michael Port spoke of love, "You know the whole, whole room feels different now. Like we can do anything... That's love. Actually. It's all around us. That's big! See, that's what I'm talking about when I say 'Revolutionary'!" I couldn't help being moved.<br />
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And love really <i>is</i> revolutionary! Love is what makes Etiquette at Hand so important. We all know manners are important. Some of us practice them more often or more seriously, or even better than others. And some think we "got" it when in fact, we don't. Not really. Because though it does matter that we use proper etiquette for the proper situations, what really matters is the etiquette for how we treat each other; love each other.<br />
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Etiquette is love.<br />
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My definition of etiquette is, "the consistent display of courtesy to all people at all times" and that, my dear friends, is love.<br />
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See, here's the thing. When we make the decision, the <i>commitment,</i> that no matter how rude people are to us, we will respond with politeness; no matter how rushed we are, we will take the time to show patience; no matter how angry we are, we will respond in a civil and courteous manner; then we are acting in love. We are creating a safe environment in which we and others can explore and fail and thrive. Together. And in this process, we are creating love.<br />
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Who do I think I am? I am Carrie Glenn, the Etiquette Expert that stands up for love and kindness and equality.<br />
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know, I know. Valentine's Day is over. For many, it was wonderful and for
others...well... Not so much. Many of us experience #datingfail to some degree.
Check out these dating tips and allow me to give you the top ten dating
etiquette tips to help facilitate the success of your next date night plans.
Whether it's your first date, your fiftieth, or perhaps it is the day you plan
to propose, following these tips gives your lover the chance to relax and see
you at your best.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Give her
direct compliments and skip the critiques.</span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;"> It's date night! Criticizing your date
(even jokingly) is like bringing a third wheel to the table. It is rude and
unnecessary. Instead, give her direct compliments, starting with a great compliment
the moment you see her. A direct compliment is one that emphasizes the word
"you," e.g., "You look lovely," or "You're so
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Use direct
eye contact and good posture to demonstrate your attentiveness. </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">This may seem like a
no-brainer yet check out the couples next time you are out and about. Watch how
often they <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">don't</i> look at each other
or turn their bodies away to hunch over their phones. Sit up! Shoulders relaxed
and squared. Lean towards her. Watch her move. Watch her push back her hair.
Watch her lips move as she talks. Look into her eyes.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Open the
car door for her! </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Yes!
She <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">can</i> open her own door. She is
strong and self-reliant. Opening her door in no way demeans the woman's journey
to equality. It is just good etiquette. It doesn't matter how long you've been
dating or even married, opening the car door for your lady reminds you both on
a pretty constant basis that there are basic guidelines in manners that we
follow to demonstrate civility and courtesy. And of course this goes for <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">all</i> doors such as the house door and the
door to the restaurant. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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for the journey. </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">How
you travel says a lot about you. Showing her you put some thought into the
mundane aspects of the date tells her that you care about her wellbeing. If you
are going in your vehicle, have it cleaned. If you are using public
transportation, be sure to plan your routes, have fare readily on hand, and be
a gentleman to all travelers (and do please keep your knees together while
seated). If you are on foot, walk on the curbside of the sidewalk. Hold her
hand or allow her to take your arm yet refrain from taking hers or grasping her
elbow (it feels awkward and uncomfortable).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Give
yourself the Wow Factor. </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Experts agree that it takes less than 30 seconds for someone
to sum you up. Your head, hands and feet are the top three attention grabbers
so wear a great hairstyle and/or hat and a sincere smile. Clean and file your
nails (really, this is non-negotiable) and moisturize your hands. Make sure
your shoes are well maintained and polished. She may not think to comment on
these aspects yet she will surely appreciate them. Show up with a small token
of your affection in your hand and the most fabulous smile on your face.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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grace under fire. </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">All
the little things that can go wrong on a date can add up quickly. Slow traffic.
A fender-bender. Your reservation is lost. The train is late. The couple next
to you thought it would be lovely to allow their new bundle of joy to exuberantly
exercise his lungs throughout dinner. How you handle conflict will either be a
turn on or a turn off. Remember, it's date night so have fun and be easy-going!
(That said, wouldn't it be just as lovely to hand the aforementioned couple <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">your</i> dinner bill on your way out? One
can fantasize...)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Ask her
for a favor. </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Which
came first, the chicken or the egg? It seems natural to assume that when we
like someone, we are happy to do nice things for him or be nicer to him.
However, studies show that when we do something for someone, we grow to like him
more. So give her an opportunity to like you more by asking for her help. Any
favor will do. You could ask her to help you pick out a tie (a great way to
secure a future date). Be prepared to reciprocate!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Loyalty is
key so have her back. </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">And the scene goes like this: <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The laughing couple talk enthusiastically. They casually brush fingers,
their eyes smoldering with desire... She brings up the latest office gossip and
complains about a co-worker. He tries to make her feel better by underplaying
said co-workers evil plot to destroy her. Her back goes up and she slips her
hand from his, sliding it into her lap. How could he defend the one person who
might crush her promotion dreams? Maybe he's not the one...</i> I see this all
the time with couples and even between friends. Here's the thing, trying to
minimize a woman's worries only serves to put into question her ability to
perceive and translate events. Also, unless a woman asks for advice, she
doesn't want it. If you really want to help this uncomfortable moment pass
quickly, simply listen and acknowledge her struggle. Save the strategic planning
session for a non-date night.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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your date night theme at all times. </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Are you planning to propose? Are you celebrating
falling in love or an anniversary? Are you simply excited for the excuse to get
out of the house? Begin with the end in mind. Whatever your plans, remember
them! Don't allow circumstance to rob you of your fun. Be pleasant, let
conflict fizzle, honor your relationship.</span><br />
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BMW: your bread is on the left, your meal is in the middle and your wine, water
or other beverage is on the right. Pull out her chair for her unless the wait
staff does it. Follow her cue on when to place the napkin in your lap, take the
first drink, and take the first bite of the meal. It's very unattractive to
still be settling into our seats while our date starts wolfing down the bread
or worse yet, dinner. During the toast, look her in the eyes up until you tip
your head back to sip your beverage. Break off one bite of bread at a time,
butter and eat it. Be courteous to all wait staff. Eat your meal in time with
hers (not too fast so she has to finish alone <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">awkward!</i> and not too slow so that she feels as though she ate too
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<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 14.0pt;">Carrie Glenn helps people learn to consistently
practice manners so that they can get more of the things they want. She is an
expert speaker and coach in workplace civility, career etiquette, and effective
communication. From the dining room to the boardroom, her unique training
provides powerful social skills that deliver results. She is the founder of
Etiquette at Hand, where she teaches everything kind, classy, and beautiful.
Carrie Glenn is delighted to empower clients to learn how to take command of
the room, enhance their relationships, and confidently reach their career and
relationship goals. To learn more about her visit <a href="http://www.carrieglenn.com/">carrieglenn.com</a>.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-54970659065403095302014-09-22T00:58:00.001-07:002015-01-17T15:13:06.853-08:00Top Ten Tips for Network Marketers, Entrepreneurs, and Other Sales Professionals<div id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6943" style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; padding: 0px;">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">How to enter a room. Pause a moment. Smile. Walk with Confidence. Be Present.</td></tr>
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<li id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6945" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6947" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6946" style="font-weight: 700;">Make Your Entrance Count:</span> When you enter a room, stop and pause a moment. This instantly positions you as a confident and important addition to the event or group. Use good eye contact and be present. Always look people in the eye when you are talking to them, introducing yourself, etc., and put your mind and attention fully on them. Make sure you walk with confidence. Women, pull up gently in your lower abdomen as if you are trying to zip up a tight pair of jeans and place one foot in front of the other allowing your hips to slightly sway. Men, walk with ease and with your feet moving directly forward. Women and men: Chin horizontal to the earth; if it's too high, you appear arrogant, too low and you appear unconfident and weak. Stand straight and with your shoulders back all the while with an air of grace and ease. This takes practice.</span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Practice the RULES of Engagement:</span> Know when and when not to join a group. If you approach a group and they turn slightly towards you, wait for an appropriate moment to join in the conversation. If they don't turn towards you, move on to another group. (NOTE: remember to avoid taking it personally when others do not include you; at the same time, remember to <i>always</i> turn to include others. It is very rude otherwise!) When introducing others, always say the highest ranking person's name first. I.e. (you are introducing your newest business partner, Lisa Nichols to your NVP, Hilary Corcoran): "Hilary, I would like to introduce you to our newest team member, Lisa Nichols. Lisa, this is Hilary Corcoran, our NVP." (to Hilary) "Lisa is also from Ireland and very excited to join our team." Keep in mind that a client outranks anyone in the company. I.e. (you are introducing Trish Samuel, your favorite client to Hilary): Trish, I'd like you to meet Hilary Corcoran, CEO of Hope Nation, our Arbonne branch. Hilary, this is Trish Samuel, my very good friend and favorite client." (to Trish) "Hilary lives near your daughter in Newport Beach..." This goes for guests and hosts. The guest always outranks the host. Lastly, give a firm handshake. Clasp the hand and step forward with your right foot. Shake the hand three to four times and release, maintaining eye contact and a bright smile the whole time.</span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Honor the Art of Small Talk:</span> Small talk is the most socially accepted ice-breaker. Ask a lot of questions. Listen well. Stick to neutral subjects. Have fun. Stay up to date on a few interesting bits of current events. Be sure you have a few fun facts and even historical bits or a few quotes memorized. Know your audience. If you are at an event with non-social media types, don't ask them if they saw the latest Tweet from Byoncé. If you are in a room of tweens, don't play the jitterbug and start dancing.</span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Polish Your Professional Presence:</span> What is your story and whom do you admire? Decide what your dream is and then dress yourself in that dream. In other words, what do you look like when you are at your best or have made it to the top? Are there others that you admire from whom you can glean image tips? What to you want to communicate to others? In other words, when you walk down the street, what do you want others to see in you: chic? elegant? warm and friendly? modern? romantic? business-like? When it's time to shop, always seek quality over quantity. It is best to pick one quality suit and a couple of blouses rather than several outfits of lesser quality.</span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">First Impressions Count so Make Yours Last:</span> As a primal instinct, everyone you meet will decide in less than 5 seconds if they trust and like you or if you are a threat. The first three things people notice about you are your head, hands and feet. Keep your hair styled at all times, nails neat and manicured, and shoes freshly polished and free from scratches and dings. And yes, men! Manicures are available for you, not just women. You do not have to polish of course (unless you want to), however please keep those cuticles in excellent shape since you will use your hands to shake others' hands and handle product. Your single greatest asset is your smile. <table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Your smile comes from your heart.</td></tr>
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A smile must come from your heart, reach your eyes, then your lips. Eye contact is crucial when you smile at someone.</span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Style is Your Personal Signature:</span> Remember that your wardrobe and accessories are valuable tools you can use to brand yourself. Your personal space and vehicle are also branding tools. Keep these items clean and polished, neat and tidy, fresh and enjoyable. Your signature is up to you, just make sure to keep it consistent and in pristine condition.<span style="font-weight: 700;"></span></span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Follow the Golden Rule of Networking: </span>When you attend events, look for one maybe two (max!) lifetime connections. Look for someone you really like and would love to invite to your home for Christmas dinner. Seek like-minded people. These people may have vast differences from which you can draw on to enhance each others' lives, yet you must be able to resonate with their core values. Following this rule opens your mind and heart to true and valuable connections. You may end up occasionally connecting with more than one or two or you may go home with just one. Either way, you will feel happy because this connection will in all likelihood end up a lifetime friend.</span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">How to Give and Receive Business Cards: </span>Always use two hands when you hand someone your card. Hold it by the two top corners and present it as if it is your dearest possession. Receive their card with the same honor and respect. Comment on and/or compliment it. And remember the #1, most important, business card tip ever: It is far more important to receive a card than give one. Always ask for others' cards before you ask them if you can give them yours and always ask for others' cards even if you don't have cards.</span></span></li>
<li style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-weight: 700;">Give to Receive: </span>We care. That is obvious. Why we care is not always obvious. When we want others to perceive that we truly care about them, we must approach them with the attitude of serving them rather than wanting anything from them. This includes our hosts, potential business builders, and our team. Most of us have heard the phrase, "Ask and ye shall receive," and while this is true, there is also another system at play in today's society. It is, "Give and ye shall receive." Fortune 500 companies such as Merrill Lynch, built their fortunes on the concept of giving before asking. In fact, Arbonne subscribes to this philosophy by teaching us to give samples and spa nights, etc., before ever asking clients to buy. Be prepared and satisfied to give, give, and give some more without ever receiving a sale, a partner, or anything in return. Schedule time each day or at the very least, each week to hand write thank you cards and other types of "giving" communications with your contacts.<span style="font-weight: 700;"> </span></span></span></li>
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Understand the place setting by remembering <span style="font-weight: 700;">BMW</span>. Think <span style="font-weight: 700;">B</span>read on the left, your <span style="font-weight: 700;">M</span>eal or plate, in the middle and <span style="font-weight: 700;">W</span>ater or <span style="font-weight: 700;">W</span>ine on the right. (I know, I know. Mercedes isn't too thrilled with this acronym...). Master what to do during the meal. The key here is to know that mistakes happen and your job is to make as little fuss when they do happen and move forward quickly. Also, help others feel comfortable if they spill or make a mistake. And of course, take a dining etiquette course! and practice often at home.<span style="font-weight: 700;"></span></span></span></li>
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<li id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6919"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6921" style="font-size: 14pt;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Avoid giving unsolicited etiquette advice to anyone. EVER.</span></span></li>
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<li id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6912"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6911" style="font-size: 14pt;">Watch this <a href="https://mo155.infusionsoft.com/app/linkClick/1476/9b19d66a96d95ba5/1830/75817c2d5a59ff6b" rel="nofollow" shape="rect" style="background-color: transparent; color: #0645ad; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;" target="_blank">VIDEO</a> on how to give and receive business cards and then practice with a friend or colleague</span><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1411300139538_6913" style="font-size: 14pt;"> </span></span></li>
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Okay. So I'm sitting here trying to write these tips and exercises. My fireplace is inoperable because a seagull family has built a nest to house its egg in my chimney and our laws prohibit moving a wild bird egg. It's summer. Everywhere. Except...Pacific Grove, Fogtown, USA. I've been cold every night for about a week and guess what? My thermostat is broken as well. So I cannot even turn on the heater. </div>
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The service man is here fixing it. Rejoice! Right? No. I am annoyed. The service man has told me about matching wiring in a thermostat. He told me yesterday while he was assessing the problem. He told me yesterday while going down to the basement to check the wiring, while packing up, while explaining how he would talk to the leasing company, while announcing that he was sure the problem was that the thermostat was broken because the wiring is okay, while he was backing out the door.</div>
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He tells me again today while he is pulling off the old thermostat. He tells me today while he is opening the new package, while he is installing the new thermostat, while he is handing me the recyclables (yes, I care deeply about our Earth, however not about the wiring...I just want to work on this article...and feel warm), while he is showing me how the thermostat works, while he is...</div>
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Just make it stop! I am so annoyed I can hardly practice the Self-regulation it is taking to politely exit this would-be-heat-hero from my home.</div>
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And it hits me. I want to slam the door in a man's face so that I can finish teaching Etiquette. He is standing there, so proud of his work; so proud of his findings, his discoveries. I realize that the extra maybe, <i>eight</i> minutes of my life I spent listening to his wire story is not, in fact, wasted time I can never get back. Each moment was a chance to connect. To listen and to understand. And I blew all but the first and last.</div>
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The first time he told me, I listened intently, truly interested (well, at least a little bit interested). The interest faded quickly into annoyance. Now I realize my wasted opportunity and I listen again for the last time. The information is not new. But my understanding is. Would-be-heat-hero has become a person with a need to be heard. Over and over and over and over and over and over again. Right or wrong, annoying or not, my job, my task is change my mind about how I feel about him. Though I didn't get to this conclusion until it was almost too late, the fact that I have will make all the difference.</div>
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Tonight, unlike last night, I will not have to rely on Self-regulation to keep from complaining to my boyfriend that the Would-be-heat-hero talked a lot. (Actually, last night I only practiced Self-regulation <i>after</i> I had complained <i>twice</i>...) I won't complain in my own heart and mind that the Would-be-heat-hero talked a lot. I won't be glad to see this human disappear from my existence.</div>
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And all because I changed my mind. Yesterday, I chose to be annoyed. Today, I choose to be kind. And it's 71 degrees in here!</div>
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Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-55364121804026064572013-11-23T09:50:00.001-08:002013-11-26T12:42:57.156-08:00Etiquette: How to Set the Table<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>How to Set Your Thanksgiving Table</u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfEVIm_Av4Dlx4P-cqcBhDpuFQU4gRX9YywKgGjSAnwSG5IwuY0ggqRSw_J5vL7HT8Tmk9d3wQEqv2dLiY4CbqSoNoSR0ZsHxAvlrstfus8PxaPBabSvuS9XjsFlbsz-xjA7CYjzYT6kft/s640/blogger-image-423476087.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfEVIm_Av4Dlx4P-cqcBhDpuFQU4gRX9YywKgGjSAnwSG5IwuY0ggqRSw_J5vL7HT8Tmk9d3wQEqv2dLiY4CbqSoNoSR0ZsHxAvlrstfus8PxaPBabSvuS9XjsFlbsz-xjA7CYjzYT6kft/s640/blogger-image-423476087.jpg"></a></div><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>The smell of cinnamon and apple cider lingers in the air. The sounds of chattering, children laughing and car horns are ever present and never ending. In every direction, there are sightings of sale signs and holiday decorations. Everywhere we venture we can taste samples of sweet and savory goods. And velvet! The luxurious feel of velvet and silk has arrived.</u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>These changes herald the joy, peace and love we hold in our thankful hearts and share with others this time of year. They herald gatherings with loved ones and dinners and parties. As for hosting, may those who do so be especially blessed!</u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Hosting is a joy and a challenge. There is so much that must be done and so little time to do it and then it's over. To make things just a little easier, keep in mind these tips as you prepare your Thanksgiving feast this year. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Step 1: Decide your theme and choose your décor. Your theme is simple enough as it is likely to be inspired by the holiday. Some hosts and hostesses like to layer in helping others by having guests bring something for a local toy drive or other charity. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Step 2: When choosing your décor keep in mind your tastes and resources. Do you want to be elaborate or simple? Ashley or picnic table? Fine china or paper plates? Whether you set an elaborate table cover or throw together a couple of card tables, the real magic of Thanksgiving Dinner is putting together folks of all sorts, tied by the common threads of family, friendship or cordiality. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Step 3: Always use a tablecloth for your Thanksgiving table. It sets the standard that something very special is about to happen. Plus, the tablecloth is useful because it hides a multitude of sins including scratches, burns, water marks and the crack between two tables shoved together. White is the color that indicates a very formal affair, however, today's modern world likes to personalize and mix things up. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Step 4: Strategize your table setting by the number of courses you are serving and when you are serving them. Many people serve Thanksgiving as a two meal course. They lay the entire meal on the table and then offer dessert and coffee when the dinner has been cleared. In this case you will set a plate, napkin, one dinner fork, one dinner knife and perhaps a spoon. Others serve the meal in several courses. In this case you will number your forks, knives and spoon to how many courses you're having. Remember to keep your dishes, napkins and silverware an inch from the edge of the table. This looks good and helps to keep these articles from slipping off. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Step 5: Setting the table. Stand in front of each place setting as you go. Set the plate or charger in the center of each place. Lay the napkin on top of each plate. Forks go to the left, knives (blades facing the plate) and spoons to the right. You may place the dessert fork and spoon above the plate (fork times pointing right and spoon bowl pointing left) or you may bring them to the table with the dessert at the end of the meal. The charger is only a place holder. If you use one, it is removed when the plate of food arrives.</u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyhxNGkhGj_bvWRcqD_l3mpqMdrspwrnmy0p1NFEXAz1ysJMbJcwdd7MlyT-m_bzfykTKfgGl7iBMYC9Er3xpb-FWJajxTQhL2nLe-nncFnZCz1qg8dFDICEdza_k73kmrhVbE1APdfYhb/s640/blogger-image-677063586.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyhxNGkhGj_bvWRcqD_l3mpqMdrspwrnmy0p1NFEXAz1ysJMbJcwdd7MlyT-m_bzfykTKfgGl7iBMYC9Er3xpb-FWJajxTQhL2nLe-nncFnZCz1qg8dFDICEdza_k73kmrhVbE1APdfYhb/s640/blogger-image-677063586.jpg"></a></div><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Think BMW. Your bread plate will go to the left, just above the forks. Your plate for your main meal goes in the center. Your water and wine glasses will go to the right above the knives and spoon.</u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Place the water goblet above the knife that is closest to the plate. Red wine glass goes to the right of that and white wine glass to the right of that. If you are having champagne, the flute fits just above the water goblet and red wine glass. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>Step 6: Finishing touches. No matter how you set your table, it's the little finishing touches that make all the difference. You may get fancy with individual salt and pepper shakers or bowls. Shakers go on the left and above the bread plate. Salt bowls are placed between each pair of guests. A centerpiece is always nice, keeping in mind that it and any floral arrangements should be kept short so that people can see across the table. Candlesticks are a great idea. Name holders may be used and can be placed above the plate in the plate or in many varieties. A lovely typed or handwritten menu is also a very nice touch and, if added, can be placed on top of the napkin which is on top of your plate or charger. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>A good host or hostess always keeps in mind several things. The comfort of your guests is the most important thing. Lively conversation is mandatory. Mishaps happen. Be prepared for them, be gracious when they happen, and move quickly passed them. Take into consideration your resources. If you only have one size wineglass, just set one. It's all about the experience, not the props. Use what you have. Use it well. And most importantly, have fun. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u>To download my holiday dining guide as a gift from me, go to my website www.CarrieGlenn.com. </u></font></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><font color="#0000ee"><u><br></u></font></div></div>Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-37283381422457844732013-11-22T17:02:00.001-08:002013-11-22T17:02:04.416-08:00Avoid Family Fist Fight Follies!<div><b><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">T</span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">hanksgiving Countdown 6 days...</span></b></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQ-ZsU5xVCxQrM-WTIn0HaF3lYrB64LDccU_5ATz8ZzcmPBXHegh9KJMjyfwgrJ_-GLtdHXwKAy_OFwOE2Q_cgRPlieu04PsTOL5mGKvvu2887XjMSyGsJW8lrk6BfawdPo6ZV-DVPYIOt/s640/blogger-image--740908946.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQ-ZsU5xVCxQrM-WTIn0HaF3lYrB64LDccU_5ATz8ZzcmPBXHegh9KJMjyfwgrJ_-GLtdHXwKAy_OFwOE2Q_cgRPlieu04PsTOL5mGKvvu2887XjMSyGsJW8lrk6BfawdPo6ZV-DVPYIOt/s640/blogger-image--740908946.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><b>Start practicing silence</b> now. When anyone annoys, irritates, angers or disappoints you, resist snapping or flying off the handle. Give yourself a moment of silence and allow dignity in. </span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">This also works mid-tantrum! If you find yourself reacting and in the moment think of me (what?! good job!), act on silence right then. It's all good and it takes practice and effort. Like a muscle, the more you use etiquette, the better you get at it. Someday you'll be a pro. </span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">Or, like me, it may take years </span></div>Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-75764285098066642392013-11-03T10:56:00.001-08:002013-11-03T10:56:12.972-08:0030 Day Thankful Challenge: Day 3Thankful challenge. What a lovely and civil idea. Ah November, with its nippy air, darker days, crackling fireplaces, the smell of cinnamon, family time and holiday soirées. It's that time of year when we start thinking about shopping and cooking and baking and loved ones and being thankful. It's also that time of year when we are rushed, stressed, and dealing with all sorts of difficult schedules, situations and even people. This perfectly timed challenge thus carries the honor of providing us a new tradition which adds a mere moment of retrospect, meditation and appreciation to our frazzled and ever-growing daily <span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">to do list. </span><div><div><br></div><div>Perhaps then it's my duty, nay, it's my privilege <span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">to jump on this 30 day thankful trend. Today is day three and yes, I have completed days one and two. The funny thing is, today when I awoke I tried to think of something specific for which I was thankful. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Granted, the cobwebs of sleep had not yet lifted their sticky tentacles from my worn and worried brain. Though I immediately felt guilty that I couldn't think of just the right subject for my "thanks" straight away, I immediately felt thankful for this challenge because it enabled me to start going over in my mind all the things I'm thankful for. You needn't worry. That's not what I'm thankful for today. I'm not that cliché! I have listed my first three days of "thanks" </span><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">below. Happy reading!</span></div></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><b>Day 3: </b></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><b>I am thankful</b> knowing that my Mommy would be proud of me. She would totally dig my new career, marketing plan, and entrepreneurial spirit.</span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> She would even approve of all the investment risk.</span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> </span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">In fact, if she were with us today, she would be doing EXACTLY what I'm doing. Maybe a different subject, maybe her own spin, but she would so LOVE this brand-new (to me!) entrepreneurial</span><wbr style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><span class="word_break" style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> </span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">platform. It's just right up her alley.</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioYfqdw1vgnIjEJY1Vo2g9eaSW1DezFMqVxveLd1BYhrKPyQOr-tIpESPr4LNkvIylhBPH_wBAFrMmZ0sxi7URo-AVR4W7dnkHdRwyoeMbctKP3_MdLlPb0vII3p5_ULQY8GvsCziyDcQA/s640/blogger-image--2018574131.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioYfqdw1vgnIjEJY1Vo2g9eaSW1DezFMqVxveLd1BYhrKPyQOr-tIpESPr4LNkvIylhBPH_wBAFrMmZ0sxi7URo-AVR4W7dnkHdRwyoeMbctKP3_MdLlPb0vII3p5_ULQY8GvsCziyDcQA/s640/blogger-image--2018574131.jpg"></a></div></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><i>My Ma's graduation photo 1965</i><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">She would tell me, "Go for it Carrie. Live your dreams. Don't stop. Don't have a backup plan. You got this, girl."<br><br>And as fear, worry, absolute stricken terror, and EMANATE DISASTER approached, she would gently brush it all aside, insisting it would all work out. <br><br>How?<br><br>"IT'S A MYSTERY!"</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><b>Day 2: I'm thankful</b> for really great friends!!!</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDKCKjWXFGYGJfASUqevqDnIEyt3P4bNqqpFhfxZ-3pA-yskJo0mmZJrAmfK7QP50Ep2n_Yq5rSw7r5FcMRnuwcblmyXlggFZxmfxsxwlJgcZCGyWioZ0T1Xdsc32Avajk5sFZVrg2Om4L/s640/blogger-image--524219713.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDKCKjWXFGYGJfASUqevqDnIEyt3P4bNqqpFhfxZ-3pA-yskJo0mmZJrAmfK7QP50Ep2n_Yq5rSw7r5FcMRnuwcblmyXlggFZxmfxsxwlJgcZCGyWioZ0T1Xdsc32Avajk5sFZVrg2Om4L/s640/blogger-image--524219713.jpg"></a></div><i>Photo by Dana Davis</i></span></div><div><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><b>Day 3: I am so thankful </b></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">that I get to do work that serves others, inspires kindness and beauty, and is almost ALWAYS so much fun that even after several hours and working into the night...it doesn't seem like work. Thank you, Jesus!!!"</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitbhMyVSc3ECpO3nwqFKUEXtW223t6Tat5hNGvP-txnc6I4w4iz-6Y1MiL53TfLnFG4PxPlU4I1j_CLkcZhwDM_2Zk-Lc4RyI7PSn0YOF2tJEcNd-6s7tVGx8J9_jCCyMZFTmoN16VIle3/s640/blogger-image-1102950622.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitbhMyVSc3ECpO3nwqFKUEXtW223t6Tat5hNGvP-txnc6I4w4iz-6Y1MiL53TfLnFG4PxPlU4I1j_CLkcZhwDM_2Zk-Lc4RyI7PSn0YOF2tJEcNd-6s7tVGx8J9_jCCyMZFTmoN16VIle3/s640/blogger-image-1102950622.jpg"></a></div><i>Why Etiquette and Manners are so important</i></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">There are so many joys to be grateful for. I hope I have inspired you to think about your own life and how marvelous and rich with miracles it is.</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">Thank you for reading and have a fabulous day. </span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><br></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"><i>Carrie Glenn </i></span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">www.CarrieGlenn.com</span></div><div><div class="tlBelowUnit" style="border-bottom-left-radius: 2px; border-bottom-right-radius: 2px; margin: 14px -10px -10px;"><div class="feedbackInlineWrap newUFI async_like async_composer inlineShare" id="u_6_z" style="margin: 10px 0px 0px; min-height: 32px; font-weight: bold;"><br></div></div></div>Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-13872912564906244042013-09-30T14:00:00.001-07:002013-09-30T14:00:29.036-07:00Check out my new YouTube series: Millionaire MannersThis is my fourth video in the series. Thank you for watching!<div><br></div><div><div class="_mrk" style="min-height: 36px; width: 250px; border-top-left-radius: 2px; border-top-right-radius: 2px; border-bottom-right-radius: 2px; border-bottom-left-radius: 2px; border: 1px solid rgb(204, 204, 204); padding: 8px; box-sizing: border-box; -webkit-box-shadow: rgb(255, 255, 255) 0px 1px 0px, rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.0980392) 0px 0px 3px inset; box-shadow: rgb(255, 255, 255) 0px 1px 0px, rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.0980392) 0px 0px 3px inset; margin-bottom: 6px;"><a href="http://youtu.be/mIlxPUTUgGM" class="_myo" style="text-decoration: none; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><font color="#000000">http://youtu.be/mIlxPUTUgGM</font></a></div></div><div><br></div>Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-77878641387893693042013-09-25T02:15:00.001-07:002015-01-17T14:38:08.167-08:00Network Like a Millionaire: 7 Tips for Internet Entrepreneurs<div style="border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-width: 1px; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-right-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; vertical-align: baseline;">
<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">You've just come home from a seminar, convention, or any other event where you've collected a shoebox of business cards (or maybe even just a few cards). What next? "The rich keep it in the family." Have you ever heard this expression? Millionaires are absolute experts at how to network. Why? Because they have honed the art of cultivating relationships. They understand that each of their successes is a contribution to each other as a whole. They protect and honor their connections, even when they have points of disagreement. Learn this time-honored tradition by following the examples of the elite.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1) Organize your cards, jotting a few points of interest on the back of the cards like their nickname, children's names and ages, hobbies, etc. Put the few that you had a deep and/or meaningful connection with aside and email them first. If you are shy or new at this, it will get you into the groove.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">3) Send personal emails. No mass emails since this is not your email list! Once they sign up to be on your list, then it all gets into the marketing strategy. Until then, please take a little time to get to know them, remind them why they thought you were amazing, and rekindle those sparks of interest. Chances are, they are excited to sign up for your mailing list so don't turn them off!</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">4) Mention something personal about them, their interests and hobbies, family situations, etc, in your email. Hopefully you jotted notes on the backs of the cards but if not, do your best.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">i.e. "I hope your son has gotten over his cold…"</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">5) Offer them some type of value. AND NO! I am not talking about the type of value used for marketing purposes. Seriously try to find a way to reach out to them. For example, if you met someone who loves golf and you run into a great article on golf, send it to them. If you met two people from the same area that you think would hit it off and be mutually supportive of each other, offer to introduce them. Millionaires are always looking for ways to give to each other and support each other's welfare.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">i.e. "I met someone that also lives in (___) and he is a brilliant coach. I bet the two of you would have a lot in common. If you didn't already meet him, I would be glad to give him your email so you can connect."</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">6) Wait to market. It's okay to have a link under your name that takes your new contact to a website or optin page (remember, if your contact has already showed an interest in your work, they will click on their own) but DON'T mention it or refer to it in your initial email! It's a huge turnoff. I know that Internet Entrepreneurs are geared for this type of marketing and yes, in your next email, go ahead and subtly mention that they can sign up. But in the initial email, it is important to cement your newly established and very fragile relationship.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">7) Learn the 1 to 6 Rule: Send your new contact a personal email or phone call every one to six months. Ok. Some of you have thousands, if not more, contacts. Don't worry! You're off the hook. I'm not referring to all of them. Remember those few cards you set aside in step one? The people you connected with on a deeper level? There should only be a small handful of these and each one of these people is worth your time and effort. How do you think that the top pros all go on vacations together? Or dinner? Yachting excursions? Cultivate a friendship that transcends the hope of "a sale". These are the people who will be there for you, celebrate your successes, support your crazy schemes, encourage you when you are having a lull, and laugh with you over wine.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">BONUS TIP: Compliment them! It's just good manners. </span></div>
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Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-61029847968696903922013-09-25T02:11:00.001-07:002013-09-25T02:11:36.056-07:007 Star Courtesies<p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Celebrity etiquette: many people, most of the time, can handle being star-struck. Sometimes, though, it simply does make us giddy to the knees. When that happens, these top 7 Star Courtesies can gently guide you:</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1. Greet them with a smile and a compliment. The traditional, "I'm so pleased to meet you," is a delightful opener. Follow it up with a direct, specific compliment on their work, art, achievements or affect on your life. "You're so beautiful," is nice but really, they've likely heard that a million times. Be honest and original. Wouldn't you like to be the one fan they go home and tell their friends about?</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">2. Be as brief as possible. Yes, you will have a few comments and perhaps even a question or two but remember, celebrities are people just like us. Their time is valuable, as is the time of all those in line behind you.<br>If you must ask a question, LISTEN to their answer. Don't just nod your head and then ask them the exact same question slightly rephrased. Even if they are paid to be at an event, that doesn't give you exclusive ownership of their time and energy. Practicing politeness will assist in making this an enjoyable moment for everyone.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">3. Handshaking: hold your hand out for the handshake but do not grab theirs and start shaking wildly! Keep it firm but not crushing, and brief.<br>***If they don't take your hand (rare, but it happens) just let your arm drop to your side and stay cool. It is EXTREMELY rude not to shake someone's hand no matter the circumstance or even if you dislike them. But we must always handle rudeness with grace and dignity.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">4. Hugging: always, ALWAYS, ask first ("may I hug you?" or "may I give you a hug?"). If language is a barrier, open your arms wide to indicate you'd like to hug them. If they are willing, they will lean forward and voilà! Hug! Keep it brief and allow a little air to remain between your bodies- no pressing up into them, no matter how enchanted you are.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">5. Picture posing: posing for that upcoming profile pic update on your Facebook? The same principles apply here as with previous two "physical contact tips"- always ask first and keep it brief. Take no more than one or two snaps and thank them for being so kind. And please choose the pic that makes them look the best to post. That's just common courtesy.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">6. If you find yourself getting all giddy and starry eyed, just admit it to them and pull yourself together quickly. There is something innately charming about a person's adoration so no need to play it cool. Just don't wrap your body around them until security is forced to extract you.</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 20px; padding: 10px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-style: none solid solid; border-right-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-bottom-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); border-left-color: rgb(245, 245, 245); vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">7. "Thank you!" Remember to thank them for their time and attention to you. Again, that's just common courtesy.</span></p><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8YmdLkjXR4KyYMbFOx7sNdJtf-YJK35HApIC69ZDR1TIlLj0nne1VUyi2g5la4QC8VgKffzcYq9AdLI8XT6vPxJiQGB6ezRbd_f-hPIoNDLUhMHNjloklb5XxH72HUj8N7_WgDny8vy1x/s640/blogger-image-410935731.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8YmdLkjXR4KyYMbFOx7sNdJtf-YJK35HApIC69ZDR1TIlLj0nne1VUyi2g5la4QC8VgKffzcYq9AdLI8XT6vPxJiQGB6ezRbd_f-hPIoNDLUhMHNjloklb5XxH72HUj8N7_WgDny8vy1x/s640/blogger-image-410935731.jpg"></a></div>Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-52478541178500002292013-06-03T23:29:00.000-07:002013-06-03T23:54:06.039-07:00Can moms be right?<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">Starting a business is fun. I've done it before. Successfully. Only, I had a partner. My mother. This time I am on my own and though it is fun, I realize that that I owe the success of building clientele in previous ventures all to my mom. She was a fantastic sales woman. I say <i>was</i> because we lost our mom last Fall. Boy she could sell. In fact, she's probably selling halos to angels as we speak. Somehow that gene skipped m<i>e.</i> I have had exactly two clients. And both approached me. I actually made myself go out into the field to pass out and collect business cards...once...and was so terrified that I had to create an acting scene to make myself do it. And this is where the challenge lies.</span></span><br>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">So what to do? Give up. Get a "real job" and forget my dream? Well, I absolutely did consider that. And then I thought of my mom. She would be so darn proud of me right now. In fact, I am sure that she is. She would tell me to hold on to that dream no matter what. She always wanted me to find the sort of happiness that only comes from following your dreams. She would insist that I <i>not </i>give up. Then she would tell me that I truly am a gifted sales woman and I would at that point shut down because I know that is not the case. Then I would think all the things daughters start thinking at this point.</span></span><br>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i>She's patronizing me. It's just so easy for her. She thinks she's so much better than me. Why can't she believe that I am not NOT a good sales woman? She always has to be right. Well, she's wrong! And why is she looking at my belly? SHE THINKS I'M FAT! WHY IS SHE CALLING ME FAT?!</i></span></span><br>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">And it all goes downhill from there. Until I stop and get a hold of my thoughts and remind myself that my ma did not say all those things, nor does she think them. Maybe, just maybe, she actually sees something in me that I never did before. Maybe it's time for me to look harder. I do know this: my mom had a ton of sales training at an early age with Tupperware and then later in life with different careers. Me, <i>nadda! zip! zilch!</i> And that's when it hit me. Maybe I just need training. Not to become one of those pushy, obnoxious sales people, but to learn how to organize my services and present them to those of you who would greatly benefit from them. So I've been studying; reading books like <i>Negotiation Bootcamp</i>, by <a href="http://www.negotiationbootcamp.com/" target="_blank">Ed Brodow</a><span class="st">, watching webinars by the likes of </span><span class="st"><a href="http://www.brendonburchard.com/" target="_blank">Brendon Burchard</a>, finishing a 30 day push goal challenge hosted by <a href="http://www.30daypush.com/" target="_blank">Chalene Johnson,</a></span> and I also just signed up with <a href="http://www.toastmasters.org/" target="_blank">Toastmasters</a> at the Naval Postgraduate School and wow they are tough! I have also interviewed successful marketing gurus like local, Rebecca Riddell, from <a href="http://www.riddelladvertising.com/" target="_blank">Riddell and Riddell Advertising</a> <span id="goog_756594688"></span><span id="goog_756594689"></span>.</span></span><br>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">Rebecca is brilliant! She sat me down and gave me some very good advice, "Here's what I want you to do," she began. "I want you to sit down for two to four hours every day and work out the details of your business. Ask yourself the 5 W's, who, what, where, when, why? Ask yourself how your business benefits you, your family, the community and even the world." Here, when I am usually just worn out by thoughts of <i>I just can't do this!</i>, I am actually squirming on the edge of my seat. Finally! Someone is telling me not just what to do but <i>how </i>to do it.</span></span><br>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">She went on with more suggestions and then patiently answered my worries with simple solutions and advised me to, "lift the picture of your business to the sky. When you have a question, raise your arms upwards to that picture to find the answer (that's what I do). Work your way down, not up..." Okay, here it got a little trickier but I got it! I understood what she meant because she had already laid the foundation with simple actions steps and concrete questions that would (and have) lead me to answers and more actions steps. I don't know if I can "sell" but I do know I can take definitive action steps that will make the process enjoyable, meaningful, and a great value to my clients. I am truly grateful to Rebecca!!!</span></span><br>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">So Mom, I guess you are right. You always saw what I never did. I only lacked confidence and know-how and those, <i>those</i>, I can develop easily by asking the right questions and taking the proper steps. I hope you enjoyed reading this blog and even found it helpful.</span></span><br>
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"If we all practiced manners and civility, what would we then have left to war over?" ~Carrie Glenn<br>
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~Signing off...Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-18361497397958509932013-02-23T15:52:00.000-08:002013-06-03T23:53:02.596-07:00Pete's cookiesI owe Pete a plate of cookies.<br>
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Pete's the greatest guy, really. He has the softest, kindest voice that just makes you feel calm within moments of being in his presence. His warm smile lights up the room and when he asks you how you are doing, he really wants to know. When you ask him how he's doing, he touches on the highlights: business is good, his family cat is MIA, he's really excited because his son is visiting from college. You get the sense that he loves his life, his family, and his work. He does and it shows.<br>
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See, Pete's Auto Body has been a Pacific Grove staple for years. Everyone knows that if you want a good, honest deal and beautiful craftsmanship for your newly banged up ride, you go to Pete. And we also know that he will help you out if you need it. He's done it twice with me and this last time, he really went all out, personally absorbing several hundred dollars so that my back window would roll up and down again. The car is beautiful and when I picked her up, I was absolutely thrilled with the job that he did and I promised him cookies.<br>
<br>Pete passed away early in February, 2013; just a few weeks ago. And still…<br>
<br>I owe Pete a plate of cookies.<br>
<br>Remember to honor your promises when you make them. Do it Now. You never know when you might loose your chance.<br>
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Thank you for visiting my blog and have a fabulous day! <br>
"If we all practiced manners and civility, what would we then have left to war over?" ~Carrie Glenn<br>
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~Signing off...<br>
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<i>I can't! I can't! I CAN'T!!! </i>I just can't do it all, I fear. There is so much to be done to start this business- the networking, marketing, and planning- all these are overwhelming when I've already quit my job and am now watching my funds sweep away with no hope to pay my rent in March. <i>No one is going to care about this. No one will sign up for classes. Who am I? What makes me so special?</i> And with all the work that needed to be done, I just sat in fear. Or terror, rather. And I cried. Or sobbed, rather. Then I prayed. Or yelled at God, rather.<br />
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And there was no relief. No clap of thunder. No great awakening. In fact, a while later, I got a call from a friend who suggested I get a part time job… Well meaning advice, but I just quit a job to get my business started. I really want to put everything into Etiquette at Hand and I need all the hours in the day to do it. So why do I spend so much time paralyzed with fear? What is wrong with me? My room is a mess. The dishes have taken permanent residency in the sink and on the surrounding counters. My balcony looks like a junkyard. All these things have to change in order for me to be successful since I am basing my business out of my home at first. I am truly terrified.<br />
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Then I went to ballet. I didn't want to. Well, I did want to but I was so stressed and really beside myself that going to ballet at that moment seemed more akin to getting a root canal. However, I went and class was cancelled. While chatting with friends I told them about my new intended career. As I explained how etiquette can be used to actually help relationships, I felt my sense of purpose returning.<br />
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To be honest, I was not raised to be polite. At all. And even up through the last few years, it was hit and miss. As long as everything went my way, or at least went somewhat well, I was the picture of perfect politeness. But hurt my feelings, be mean to me, treat me or a loved one with disrespect, and my Irish blood could boil your hair off. And when I was knee deep in the most challenging conflict of my adult life, I stopped. I read a quote… okay… just spent 15 minutes trying to find it but can't. So I will have to paraphrase and hope that one of you know what it is, who said, and to whom I can give credit for this piece of golden advice, since it did change my life. So here goes:<br />
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"If you smile at your enemy and show great manners towards them, they will not even know they are your enemy, thus giving you the upper hand."<br />
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Treacherous, right? And thus began my quest to "personalize" my manners. I got the jerks off my back and regained my dignity. But something else happened. I wondered what would happen if I applied my newfound idea to my everyday pals and family members. It was a slow and painful journey and I still slip occasionally, but practicing politeness has improved every single relationship I have. You can't yell at your daughter if you are being polite. You can't interrupt your son-in-law if you are being polite. You can't get all mad at your friend for disappointing you if you are being polite. It's a conscious choice, though elusive at first, and soon became the hallmark of my new lifestyle. This doesn't make me a doormat (just ask an ex-colleague who failed at bullying me in the workplace when I used polite but firm actions to stop her). It just gives me choices that actually work.<br />
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As I relayed this to one friend, she was super excited and even suggested I write a book. And I am BACK!<br />
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"If we all practiced manners and civility, what would we then have left to war over?" ~Carrie Glenn<br />
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Thank you for visiting my blog and have a fabulous day!<br />
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~Signing off...<br />
<br />Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8341412967525521071.post-72068679056557474142013-02-12T15:07:00.001-08:002013-02-12T15:07:49.992-08:00Hello world!Well, hello, World! This is my first ever blog and I am so excited to join the world of blogging. Since I love to write, I am not sure why I haven't started sooner but nonetheless, here I am. My name is Carrie and I shall be blogging for my new business, Etiquette at Hand.<br />
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Etiquette at Hand is the Monterey Bay's premiere learning center for etiquette and manners. Ok, so I know you are immediately thinking, <i>fork on the left, spoon on the right...right?</i> First: correct! Bravo! And learning this part of manners is very important, especially if you plan on dining at the White House any time soon (or you're about to meet your future mother-in-law). But we don't stop there!<br />
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At Etiquette at Hand, we have a three-fold mission:<br />
<ol><li>Emphasize civility and courtesy: treating one another with kindness, compassion, and empathy.</li>
<li>Enhance communication: practice using politeness in everyday conversations and conflicts to optimize how we relate with others.</li>
<li>Enjoy the moment: having a set of etiquette principles already in place affords us the time and luxury to completely enjoy ourselves whilst dining, entertaining, on outings, or simply savoring a cup of tea.</li>
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So that is the basics of Etiquette at Hand. Welcome to our blog! And since I know that you cannot get enough of proper manners, etiquette tips, and tea party enthusiasm, be sure to like us on Facebook, tweet us at Twitter, check out our totally cool Pinterest, and view us on Youtube (well, we don't really have anything on Youtube yet but as soon as we do, I'll certainly blog it here!!!). Please feel free to comment and/or ask questions and I will be delighted to answer.<br />
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Thank you for visiting my blog and have a fabulous day<br />
<blockquote class="tr_bq">~Signing off...</blockquote>Carrie Glenn, author of “The Truth About Online Marketing” and Copywriter. Other books include "The Periscope Checklist."http://www.blogger.com/profile/04655770644594501626noreply@blogger.com0